If there’s one question I’ve heard time and time again from the parents I work with it it’s this - Why Won’t My Child Go the **** to Sleep? The f-bomb is often dropped because by the time parents reach me, they’ve already passed through the stages of trying to remain all zen and peace-like. I’m about to share with you one of the secrets I share with these families that makes a shift and brings a sense of calm back to bedtime.
When you have a child who simply won't go to sleep, no matter how much money you’ve spent on room darkening shades and white noise machines, this question haunts you well into the morning hours.
These questioning thoughts turn into, “What is wrong with my child”, and then to, “What is wrong with me?” Sometimes, when feeling really vulnerable, parents admit they question if being a parent is what they really wanted.
Read MoreLife happens. Change is inevitable. Sometimes this change may be by choice, other times it’s not. Either way, there is often a toll, recognized or maybe unidentified, that happens within our children. When life transitions to a new stage, children maybe do not have the vocabulary to express their emotions. The effect is shown through their actions. This outward expression of unexpressed emotion may look like negative actions, neediness, or high energy. Most often this action based communication, which we can feel is negative and maybe even a drag, is in essence the best way your child knows how to ask for help.
Read MoreFor as much I talk about and use tapping in my life, it seems fitting that I have a post that is dedicated just to EFT!
EFT is known by many as emotional freedom technique, tapping, self-acupuncture, the one-minute miracle and more. I often refer to as this crazy, silly, tapping technique that helps you tune in and turn off all those things that aren’t serving you.
What if you were given the secret to letting all those icky feelings that come up during the day actually move through you and out of you? How many times a day would you cash in on this golden little gem of a secret?
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